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Gender Security Course

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Module 5 : Changing our Minds

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Men as the Problem. Men as the Solution

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Toxic masculinity refers to traditional cultural masculine norms that can be harmful to men, women and society. While the term can be used to demonize men, in reality it highlights many of the behaviours that put men most at risk. From young boys they are taught not to show their feelings, be aggressive and seek dominance. This leads to risk-taking, suppressing emotions that leads to high suicide rates, and aggressive behaviour seen in misogyny, homophobia and bullying. It is also directly related to domestic abuse and sexual violence.

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This course has recommended everyone needs to take a hard look at themselves to see how their own behaviour can place them at risk. This is especially true for men. Males need to see how their perception of what it means to be a man causes risk for themselves and other genders.

This is not to suggest you need to be less of a ‘man.’ But you need to decide for yourself whether the risks you take are smart. Whether your urge to dominate or succeed puts others at risk. You need to realise that seeking counselling for stress or mental health issues is not weakness.

Use your strength to defend and support, not harass, attack or persecute.

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